before you adopt, educate yourself!!

NOTE FROM AUTHOR:

Unethical practices and adoption scams do not only happen to adoptive parents. Expectant mothers, birth parents, adoptees and adoption professionals are also at risk. The key to an ethical and positive adoption journey is to educate yourself, know who you are working with and thoroughly research your options and the laws. In order for a con to be successful, often times the con will hide under the cloak of legitimate professionals. Or simply not hide at all.

Ethics in adoption is a MUST!

Education is the KEY!

I RECOMMEND THIS for anyone planning to adopt. Please do NOT trust someone without researching. I would not advise using a facilitator without a lawyer (you trust and researched).

I know sometimes in our heart to love and help children

we can make emotional decisions. PLEASE educate yourself. Its possible you can save yourself from a disastrous

outcome if you invest the time.

Please visit this site if you plan to adopt.

life breaks and falls apart

"...but we know these are

places

where Grace is.

soon to be

So Amazing........."

i find these lyrics so comforting,

with my frozen emotions

unthawing

melting into pools

of utter raw emotion

breaking

falling

shattering before me....

....i lay before the Throne broken

"when anything that is shattered is laid before the Lord,

just watch and see

it will not be.............

unredeemed. "

this worship,

full of passion,

Spirit and promise

wraps its arms around me

i. miss. my. sunshine. girl.

in a way full of nothing but vengeance, judgement, lies

and completely packaged with manipulation for a bow-

she was taken from me, from us

yes literally removed by force

by someone with no authority

someone who misused their position

unfortunately selfishness doesn't allow us to see clearly

and emotional desperation spins ones reasoning outta this hemisphere

there are others who witnessed this slow mo drive by

in disbelief-

it all jumped off the sanity bridge on july 30th

very late in the evening with agenda

arriving in the morning with intimidation

continuing the emotional tilt a whirl of injustice to as i breathe now.

this story, HER story is very unfortunate at the moment

this is what happens when self righteousness, pride

and nothing more than pure jealousy

becomes someone.

it is a VERY ugly becoming

and they even want to tattoo God's name on it.

for the sake of all things True,

put YOUR own name on it!!

i will not bow, i put up boundries

and that is really the problem

fallen man you are not God!

God does not intimidate,lie or manipulate

NOTHING goes unseen before Him

and these ashes He will restore

and be used for good

this is not where my destiny is

this situation can't keep me here!

although the intention was selfish

to see me broken for not bowing

little did you know this will actually strengthen me

and

i will ONLY bow to Him

for such a time as this.

life might be breaking and falling apart

"...but we know these are

places

where Grace is.

soon to be

So Amazing.........

They may be unfulfilled, they may be unrestored

But you never know the miracles the Father has in store

just watch and see it will not be

unredeemed."